Friday, October 26, 2007

'Her Rubiness' all dressed up and no-where to go....










It was a gorgeous day here yesterday. Some friends of my parents gave Ruby Mei this white silk dress that they had purchased for their granddaughter from China. I had owed them a photo of her in it. So since Ruby was willing, I decided to turn it into one big fashion photo shoot! I love the pictures where she is yawning. You can tell she was moved by the whole event. However, she did practically twirl for me in the gold dress. I think she knew how pretty she looked! This dress is special to me, because I found it at my favorite children's boutique, two days after we received our referral for Ruby! In fact, I was talking to Lisa that morning about my Ruby shopping spree!! The only thing left to break out from that crazy shopping extravaganza is Ruby's winter coat...


It is that time of year when I am searching for the perfect Christmas card photo. In my mind I can see the girls in black velvet and gold. (In my mind, Ruby is also looking at the camera with her sister!) I wish Ainsley had been here yesterday. She would have loved twirling with her little sister!


Jeff, thanks again for my camera! I love it, and I love you!

Happy Weekend,

-Diana
Thursday, October 25, 2007

I remember when.....

Today I was tagged by my dear friend Lisa in San Antonio to write a post about "I Remember when..." Well I have been tagged before and I have miserably failed at honoring the request. I will blame it on sleep deprivation. But, this one I will tackle..
  • I remember crawling into bed with my big brother while he was babysitting us to watch the movie Airport.
  • I remember my parents sitting us all on the couch in our living room when I was 8 to tell us we were moving to Minnesota from Chicago. I remember thinking, "where is Minnesota?"
  • I remember ice cream dates with Daddy!
  • I remember the smell of Grandma Kathryn's Cinnamon Rolls & Potatoe Bread
  • I remember my first ice skating teacher telling me the only reason she yelled at me was because she loved me...
  • I remember Donny Osmond and the lunch box I had with his face on it!!!
  • I remember my Teddy Bear,Chester!
  • I remember Short & Sassy Shampoo and my first Dorothy Hamill Wedge Haircut!
  • I remember getting my driver's license
  • I remember the apple green paint on my bedroom walls!
  • I remember loving Wheat Thins and Tab.
  • I remember my favorite maroon Lee cords
  • I remember seeing the Olympic Flag and the Olympic Rings on the ice in Lake Placid where I had the priviledge of skating in the Opening Ceremonies.
  • I remember how scared I was to leave home at 18 to skate for a year with the Ice Follies
  • I remember my Dad calling me in every city for 9 months to check in on me and my friends
  • I remember the way my Mom helped me when my first marriage failed
  • I remember talking to my Dad on the phone after his stroke.
  • I remember the first thing Jeff ever said to me when we met
  • I remember Jeff getting down on his knee and asking me if he could take care of me forever?
  • I remember the excitement of getting our first puppy?
  • I remember the joy when we found out we were pregnant with Ainsley
  • I remember Ainsley's labor & delivery and the first time I held my precious gift..
  • I remember how devastated I was when I learned my Dad had cancer..
  • I remember what I was doing on the morning of 9/11/01.
  • I remember the day I recieved Jesus as my Lord and Savior
  • I remember Jeff saying, "I think God wants us to adopt a baby from China!
  • I remember waiting for Ruby.
  • I remember the tears of joy when we learned that 10/24/05 had made the referral cutoff
  • I remember hearing the words, "congratulations you have a healthy and beautiful daughter and her name is Yue Meng Ru"
  • I remember holding my sister the night her husband died.
  • I remember praying over an empty crib in Nanchang with my precious husband the morning of Ruby Tuesday.
  • I remember whispering "I love you" in Chinese to Ruby Mei the moment I held her for the first time
  • I remember Ainsley's first days of school
  • I remember incredible girlfriends who wrapped me in prayer and friendship when Jeff was sick.

The list goes on and on with 43 years of memories. Some happy, some hilarious, some sad, but all part of my story! Lisa - Thanks for asking me to remember......

Love, Di

Thankful Thursday!

Today I am thankful for:
  • My husband who works so hard, and loves all of his girls so much!
  • As Kim reminded me, of my RQ October friends who waited and celebrated with me.
  • For a bible study teacher that made the "beautiful attitudes" (the beatitudes; Matthew 5) so clear to me this week.
  • For my sister who included our adoption story in her sermon at chapel on Monday!
  • For Ruby Mei sleeping through the entire night last night!
  • For Ainsley's precious questions about eternal life...
  • For the hugs and I love you's that I get from my daughters!
  • For how well Ruby is attaching and coming out of her shell more and more each day!
  • For the humbling daily reminder that patience is not my biggest strength
  • For the five 5th grade girls that I get to work with at our church on Wednesday nights!
  • For parents that are healthy!
  • For my friends that are long distance that I miss talking to or seeing like Kim, Lisa, Shauna, Glenna, Jane, Tracy, Marjie...
  • That my friend Lisa is DTC and that I promise to faithfully pray her through her wait no matter how long that is!!!
  • For spending time with Liz yesterday...
  • Last but not least, that Madison is home and doing so well!!!! And, that Julie looks incredible after having a baby a month ago, and getting no sleep!!!! You amaze me!

Blessings, Diana

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

In love with a certain Ladybug!




This "Ruby Tuesday" I have to admit I am absolutely smitten with our new daughter. She is in such a fun stage at almost 15 months. I am convinced she knows how to get a laugh out of us. Her infamous "kissy lips" face just brings smiles to all of us. She is walking, talking more, acting silly more than ever, and a constant source of joy. I have always felt a bond with Ruby Mei. But, today when she ran to me when I picked her up after Bible Study and just hugged me for what seemed like 5 minutes, she took my breath away. What a blessing this little 20 pound miracle is! Jeff and I are trying to soak her in because we know how quickly time goes. Soon she will be 6 and going to a concert with her Daddy! :)

I have to give you all the Hannah Montana update! Thank you for your SWEET guest book messages. They had such a wonderful time! Ainsley was sound asleep when they came home. But, she woke up long enough to tell me a few details. Jeff, whose ears were still ringing from the 14,000+ screaming female fans, loved every minute of it too! What is better than having your daughter hug you in the middle of a concert and thanking you for the greatest night of her life! PRECIOUS MEMORIES!!

Thanks to my very special girlfriend Jenny who gave Ruby this precious costume when we came home from China! I took the girls to a Halloween party this evening. I think she is a pretty cute ladybug! Ainsley was Dr. Ainsley for the event. Wasn't she just Tinkerbell?

Time to catch up on the news. We are praying for the familes in southern, CA tonight. We know many people who are being directly affected by this.


Blessings, Di


Sunday, October 21, 2007

The Pearl's Date with Daddy!

Most Dad's are probably home watching game 7 between Cleveland and Boston. Not Ainsley's Daddy. He is her date tonight at the Hannah Montana concert!!! He surprised her yesterday with tickets. This will be a night she will never forget! Her first "real" concert (we don't think the Wiggles counts here!) She is a huge Hannah fan, so she was so excited. They called me after the Jonas Brothers were finished! She sounded so cute!!!! I loved my husband a lot before tonight. But, watching him get ready for a night like this, makes me love him even more!!!
My guess is she will be sound asleep when they get home. I can't wait to hear the details from her in the morning! A priceless night out with Daddy! It doesn't get much better than that!

-Diana
Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Funny Face!







Dear Mom,

Don't get me wrong, I love getting dressed up in pretty dresses with bows in my hair and all. And, I really appreciate you and Dad taking me to Florida for the first time. I did love the beach! But, if you really want to get a good picture of me these days take off all my clothes, and put me in the tub!!

Love, Ruby Mei


*Last night was classic Ruby! This is the side of 'Her Rubiness' that did not show up for the beach photo shoots! Ainsley and I had so much fun taking these pictures...

Sisters!












What a blessing Ruby's adoption has been for both of our girls! They have developed a very special bond already. I really noticed it this weekend at the beach. You can just sense how safe Ruby feels when her big sister is around. My prayer is that this relationship will continue to grow into a very special friendship when they are older. I found a poem during our adoption wait that talked about that a sister is God's way of telling us he doesn't want us to be alone! How true!

Blessings from rainy MN! ~Di
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