Tuesday, March 25, 2008

The Emerald Sleeps Over!!!!



I got the sales pitch of all sales pitches from The Pearl and The Emerald yesterday! I knew it was coming, and I had to keep from laughing out loud when they said, "We have been waiting our whole lives to have a sleep over! Can we do it tonight?!" Honestly, how do you say "no" to that! As I have mentioned before these two dolls have been pals since they were six months old! Now they are both almost 7 and such great friends. I am happy to report that the sleep over was successful! Once they figured out how to fall asleep (thanks to help from Daddy!) they slept through the night! They have moved from the couch where they were just enjoying cartoons to now getting ready in matching Hannah Montana shirts to go play at The Emeralds house! I am off to put frosting on the cinnamon rolls!

I will be back next week with photos of The Pearl & The Ruby enjoying the sunshine in AZ! Blessings to blogger friends Denise and Sharon, as they leave Thursday to bring Maggie and Hudson home from China!!
~Diana
Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter!











"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, 
that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal live." 
John 3:16

Easter Blessings,
Diana, Jeff, The Pearl & The Ruby
Friday, March 21, 2008

Winter didn't get the memo...

Our deck 24 hours after Ainsley stood on it in her Easter dress yesterday!

Silk or dry cleaning allergy?

Singing with Joy yesterday!

Clearly winter did not get the memo that Spring began yesterday.  We were slammed last night with the heavy, wet, white stuff.  While beautiful, a serious work out to shovel today!  One of the biggest draws to our home when we bought it was the nature preserve we back up to.   It really is breathtaking on days like this, even in March!

Ainsley's concert was beautiful yesterday.  All of the kids were dressed up in their Easter finest.  I just love seeing little boys in coats and ties, and the young girls in their beautiful spring dresses.  Thankfully, it was the perfect day for an Easter program.  My favorite part was when they sang the "Our Father" and all of the kids held their hands together like a choir of angels. Precious!

Yesterday morning before Ruby's nap I put her in one of my favorite outfits on her from China.  She has worn it once, and I had it dry cleaned.  Well she must have had a reaction from the chemicals used because 'Her Rubiness' broke out in hives all over.  She let me know quickly that it had to come OFF!  I am really hoping she has not developed a silk allergy.  So, she had her first dose of Benadryl and an early nap.  Which worked out great because she was in a great mood for Ainsley's concert.

The Pearl and I just finished dyeing eggs.  We decided to do it while Ruby napped today.  Probably the right decision for this year!  Ainsley has decided she likes the Spring Break concept already!  It started officially for us today!

We look forward to celebrating Easter together with Aunt Bop!  Blessings to all of you on this very special weekend!

-Diana

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Happy Spring!



It's Spring!!!!! Yes, that is a deck you see under Ainsley's feet!!! Regardless of the rumor that another winter storm is heading our way, it is March 20th, the first day of spring!!!!

Today I am thankful for many things. But, especially thankful that I got the pleasure of getting "The Pearl" ready for her Easter Concert today. She and the K-4th graders are singing three songs at Easter Chapel. She has been dancing around singing all morning! This is a girl with the joy of the Lord and Spring in her heart!!!!

Here are the things that Ainsley just told me she is thankful for this Thursday!
  • That God is in her life!
  • That she has a wonderful family and sister!
  • That she has beautiful dogs!
  • That Jesus died on the cross for our sins!
  • For good friends who care about her!
  • That Spring is here!

I am thankful for all of the above too, and for the fact that in one week from today, I will be looking at cactus and green grass with the smell of fresh flowers and suntan lotion filling the air!

Happy SPRING!!

Diana


Sunday, March 16, 2008

Happy Easter Week!


Ainsley with the Bunny - 2008
When did she grow up on me?


I love this picture from Saturday! Thanks Tanya..

When did she grow up too?

We were reminded all weekend of what Christ did for us! We took Ainsley to "The Son of Man, Son of God" play at our church on Saturday night. It was an incredible production of Jesus's life, crucifixtion, and resurrection! We feel very blessed to be able to share these truths with our children! And, for the teachable moments they give us!


After church yesterday we took the kids to see the Easter Bunny. As you can see, 'Her Rubiness' decided to check out the bunny from afar. After Santa, I was not going to push it. All in all it was a busy, but fun weekend! We look forward to four more days of school, and Easter weekend. We are counting down the days until we head to AZ for a much needed (in my opinion) warm weather vacation! We have a Winter Storm Warning for today! Always to be expected in March in Minnesota!


Well I am anxiously awaiting today to see photo's of new families being created in China. It is Gotcha Day for three lovely Mom's I have met because of Ruby Mei. I am praying for Paisley, Sarah, and Audrey who by now are with their parents and hopefully getting settled in for their first nights together! I will never tire of the gift of new families being created in this way!


Blessings for a great week!

Diana



Saturday, March 15, 2008

'Her Rubiness Kicks off Easter!"



Ruby must have gotten the inside scoop on how to hunt for Easter eggs from somebody, because she was all business in her squeaky shoes when they they said, "ready-set-go!!" She just put her Easter bag in position on the crook of her arm, and off she went! I am not sure if finding the eggs or discovering there was really candy inside of them was more fun. It was one big messy chocolate fiesta for 'Her Rubiness' today! She is definitely going to be my sugar girl! Like mother, like daughter!

We almost did not make this fun event this morning because the battle of the car seat has begun. Well it really began a few weeks ago, but I thought it was behind us. Ruby has learned very quickly that when it comes to a stand off, I am patient (sometimes) and stronger than she is.... Let's just say she was mad as a hornet until we reached our destination. I have to give her credit for her stubborness. It can be very impressive!

Needless to say, I won the battle, and we had a fun morning. It is a blessing to see her try all of these new things! She really seems to enjoy being around other children too. She even shared her M&M's with precious Hope! Way to go Ruby! Jeff & Ainsley has a night together at our lakehouse. So it was just Ruby & Mommy today!

Blessings,
Diana
Thursday, March 13, 2008

Puddles and more!!!






As you can see we had some fun around here today!  When it finally hits 52 degrees after a brutal winter it feels like summer!  Due to some frozen drainage pipes between our house and our neighbors, an impressive lake formed this afternoon.  Well of course seeing this through the eyes of a 19 month old, a three year old, and two six year olds it was a not a flooded street, it was a water park!  My good friend and neighbor Kristi, and I let the kids be kids for a while after school.  They had a blast splashing around and making the most of a beautiful day!  As you can see Ruby was not to be left behind.  She charged right in with no fear!

So while I have many things to be thankful for this Thursday, I am mostly thankful for moments like this one today!

It has been a busy week, and I am looking forward to a fun weekend.  I am taking the girls to an Easter Egg hunt with the group of families we have met locally from China!  We are looking forward to more nice weather, and the upcoming Easter week!

Blessings,
Diana
Friday, March 7, 2008

Now I have something to do with my pictures!


I am happy to report that "The Pearl" and "The Ruby" just may have scrapbooks of their lives as children before they head off to college now! Reality is I will never have time to do creative, cut and paste scrapbooks for these girls right now. I did one for Ainsley that I gave to her on her first birthday. It was a labor of love that took me forever to do. That was almost six years ago. But, now this world of digital scrapbooking is right up my alley! It may take me until they are 18 to catch up, but now I have a goal. Ainsley & Ruby will head off to their freshman year of college with something in hand from their Mom! (And maybe a few DVD's too!)

I will take any advice you experts would like to share! For now, I am using Creative Memories Creator Plus Mods. Another blogger friend of mine does amazing things with a program called Scrapbook Max. I am going to order that one too! What I love most is the option to order the pages individually and then load into albums!

Oh well, since I love to take pictures, it is time to capture the memories for those I stalk with the camera!

Lastly, THANK YOU for all of your sweet messeges celebrating Ruby Mei's entrance into our world! We were so blessed by all of them! Now I need to think of something special for Ruby Tuesday which will be here soon! I have some friends leaving for China this week. So, next week I will be celebrating their "Gotcha" moments!! Can't wait!
Blessings,
Diana

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Celebrating The Day We Got "The Call!"



One year later looking at her referral picture!



(You may have to hit the play button twice)

*You may want to pause the music below on the playlist at the very bottom of these pages!
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Excerpts from my journal on March 7th, 2007:

Dear Ru,

It has been 48 hours now since I heard your name for the very first time. I am going to do my best to describe how we learned about you, and what has taken place since the week began.

March 5th began very early for me. Caymus (our dog) actually woke me up at 4:30. Since I was up, I decided to turn on my computer to see if there were any updates on RQ from the European groups. The very first subject line said, "October 24th is the cutoff!" I stared at the screen barely able to breathe. When I opened the message there it was! "The internal CCAA website says referral cutoff is 10/24/05!" I can't tell you how long I sat at my desk crying tears of joy. It was like being frozen in time. I grabbed my Bible and it opened to 1Samuel 1:27, "I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of Him." Oh, how I had been waiting to shout those words!

Next I walked upstairs to tell your Daddy. Somehow I was able to blurt out, "You are going to know who your new daughter is today!" That clearly got his attention! Your precious Dad just held me while 17 months of tears landed on his chest.


Your Dad was scheduled to leave for a business trip to AZ that morning. Since we didn't know for sure if we would get our referral that day we called our FC at AWAA and asked her if he should stay home. As we were driving to the airport, Amy called my cell phone and said, "I can't tell you anything, but tell Jeff not to get on that plane this morning. I will call you back!" Enough said, we turned the car around and quickly re-arranged Dad's trip.
After some quick errands, we went home and waited for the phone to ring..

At 12:10pm, on March 5th we saw AWAA on the caller ID! We ran into Mom's office and answered on speaker phone. "The Call" that we had waited so long for started like this, "Congratulations Jeff & Diana, you have a healthy and beautiful baby girl and her name is Yue Meng Ru. She is waiting for you in the Jiangxi Province of China! She was born July 31, 2006 and she is living in Foster Care." She told us you were registered with the Yugan SWI, but you had never lived there. At this point, I started to cry. I had specifically prayed for months that you were safely with a caregiver that could tenderly care for you. To me, that was your Foster Mother. The other thing was that you were a July baby, just like your Daddy. Amy spent more time describing you to us. She said you were absolutely beautiful. That you had big brown eyes, beautiful skin coloring, and tons of hair!!!

The fact that you were only seven months old meant that you had been conceived around the time we began our adoption process, in May 2005. And, you were born on a Monday which was the day that Mommy had her weekly Prayer calls. All red threads that have connected us to you!

On March 6th we saw your face for the first time. For as long as I live I will never forget this moment. AWAA had told us to expect an email early in the morning followed by a fed-ex package by 10:00. I took your big sister to school and rushed home. By now your Daddy was in Phoenix so our plan was to open our emails together. And, that is how it happened. As you filled up my computer screen you took my breath away. You were more beautiful than Amy had even described you. There you were staring at me, your mommy! Amy told us you were a love at first site baby, and she was right. Your eyes, your beautiful lips, and adorable nose... Perfect! It was clear to me that you were loved and being taken care of. Answered prayer!

What followed was a flurry of emails, phone calls, visitors and wonderful guest book messeges. I don't think I slept until Thursday when your Dad returned. We celebrated you at a special dinner with your big sister that night. Six days later we finalized your beautiful name.....

I tell you all this because I so desperately want you to know how much you were loved before you came home. God was so faithful when he answered our prayers. You were so worth the wait! God picked you to be my daughter. What a privilege! I promise to do my very best raising you to be the child God intended you to be. Don't ever doubt for one single minute that you are special, wanted, and loved!

I love you,
Mama

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Now we fast forward one year, and we celebrate our first "referral-versary" (thanks Leeanne for the word) and we pause to give thanks. You have been such a gift to your Daddy, sister and me. We have been blessed to watch you bloom before our eyes. We have all grown as a family this year! So, Ruby Mei thank you for being so brave. Thank you for trusting us. Thank you for making us laugh everyday. Your joyful spirit is contagious! Our lives are all richer because you are in it.

"The Flower that Blooms in Adversity
is the most rare and beautiful of all."
~Mulan

Blessings to you, our precious beautiful gem, Ruby Mei!

Love,
Mama, Daddy & Ainsley
Monday, March 3, 2008

Feeling very nostalgic this week!


One year ago today we were up at our cabin playing in 15" of snow, checking in on RQ, and praying that our LID of 10/24 would be including in the next batch of referrals.  All rumors were stating that we would miss the cut-off by one or two days.  I believe by the power of prayer we were included.  Ruby's referral was dated the day that I sent out an urgent prayer request about being in!  On March 5th 2007, at 4:30 am, I would find out that indeed 10/24 was included!  It WAS the cutoff date!  I am working on a special post for our dear sweet Ruby Mei for Wednesday!

Since Wednesday's post will be all about 'Her Rubiness', I want to take the time now to thank some very special people that stood by me/us during our wait.  
  • First, and foremost, God who chose this amazing child for our family!!!  He was so faithful with the referral of Yue Meng Ru!
  • Jeff - who never wavered in his faith during our adoption process.  He was, and is, such an inspiration to me.
  • Ainsley - who dreamed about her little sister in a pink tu-tu!
  • Sally & Steve, Liz & Jon, Robyn & George, Jenny & Chris, Sheri & Rob - Our family group who started this journey with us, and stood by us month after month.  It was such a joy to call each family after we got "The Call!"
  • To our parents and siblings - For never questioning our plan, and for faithfully waiting with us!
  • For my Monday Night Prayer Sisters - Lisa, Jill, Shauna, Edi, Jackie, Kim, Gaylie, & Lynn.  What a blessing to share my Monday nights with you during our wait!
  • To Lisa O.  - Too many things to list!  Mostly, I am thankful for your friendship!!
  • The October "RQ" Mom's - This was such a special group of women to count down with!  We shared the highs and the lows!  The celebrations were sweet as one by one we received our referrals!  A special thank you to Kim for being there then and now!
  • To Leeanne - For having coffee with me for a year!  And, celebrating with us from China!
  • To Amy P. at AWAA - What would I have done with out you?!!!!
  • To Amy S. our amazing Social Worker!  Thanks for everything!!
  • Liz - Who stepped in as photographer and videographer when the Fed-ex Stork came!
  • To Ruby's incredible birth mother....  For trusting enough to give up your precious child.  I do believe you know that she is safe and loved!  I also know you are incredibly beautiful both on the inside and out!  Precious Ruby exudes joy from her inner being!
  • For Mei - Who found Ruby and made sure she would be safe always!
  • For Ruby's Foster Mother - Who clearly loved her!
  • For Liz U. who put our entire "Journey to Ruby" together in one amazing book!
  • To everyone who signed our guest book during our wait, during referral, and during our trip to China.  I wept as I read some of your messages last night!  What a treasure!
  • To Joe and Jen at www.myadoptionwebsites.com who did such an amazing job with "Journey to Mei Mei - Ruby Mei!"
I look forward to sharing some of my most cherished memories here on Wednesday!
Love,
Diana
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