Monday, August 27, 2007

Our precious pearl is a First Grader!!!





We honestly can't believe that Ainsley started first grade today! Wasn't it yesterday that I was off to Baptist Hospital to be induced?


It was a priceless day! It was all about Ainsley today! The way it should be when you start first grade!!!! She agreed to let me help with her hair! She has agreed to let me do it on picture day too! :) We made pancakes, packed her lunch, dropped off Ruby at a neighbors, and headed to Chapel Hill Academy! My favorite memory will be Jeff walking her in!!!!


She had a wonderful first day, and we are so excited for her!


I hope to be back blogging on a more regular basis now that Ainsley is in school, Jeff is on the mend, and I can take a deep breath... I look forward to "chatting" with you again soon!


Blessings,

Diana
Tuesday, August 14, 2007

The "calm" after the storm....


This seemed like an appropriate picture today based on the chaos going on around here lately. Sorry it has taken me a week to post.... This is a photo that friends of ours sent us today of our trampoline up at our lake house. After a huge storm last night this is where it ended up... Thankfully, this is the extent of the damage we received.
Jeff and I were unfortunately back at the ER yesterday. He developed Bells Palsy on the left side of his face on Sunday night. Another brain MRI was ordered, and we were encouraged to hear that things look the same or better than his original scans done about two weeks ago. It seems to be unanimous that our medical team of doctors still do not have a definitive diagnosis for what is going on in Jeff's body. I will admit that it has been both frustrating and discouraging. He was doing so great the last few days, that this set-back was really upsetting for us, especially Jeff. We will continue on our current treatment plan until August 18th. We will then return to his Neurologist for further tests on the 23rd. In the meantime, we pray and pray for clarity!
Like all trials, we have been blessed in so many ways throughout this difficult time. That list will make a great "thankful Thursday" entry this week! Just know that we have been surrounded by loving people that continue to shower us with acts of kindness!
We are hanging in there!
Blessings,
Diana
Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad!!!!


HAPPY 54 YEARS MOM & DAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love,
Diana
Sunday, August 5, 2007

Home Sweet Home!


Well the homecoming for Jeff was not quite as celebratory as the one we had when we came home from China, but the feeling was similar. One word comes to mind, thankful...


Jeff came home from the hospital yesterday. We clearly understand that he has a long way to go in making a full recovery. Considering we still don't know exactly what he has, makes his prognosis complicated. But, we do believe he will get better, we just don't know when...


Today I was trained by our Home Health Care Nurse to administer Jeff's daily IV dose through his "pic" line. The patient gave me the clearance to do it again tomorrow!!


I just want Jeff to feel better. He is exhausted and he has a lot of back pain. I am so hopeful that the catheter will come out no later than Tuesday of this week. That will alleviate a lot of his dis-comfort and it will make it easier to get around.


That is all for now, I just wanted you all to know that he is home sweet home!


Blessings,

Diana






Friday, August 3, 2007

We'd rather be boating......






Almost two years ago we were blessed to be able to buy a second home about two hours north of Minneapolis. We have made so many wonderful family memories at the lake already. While we waited for Ruby we documented many of them. Until Ruby came along my favorite thing to do at the lake was to watch Jeff and Ainsley down at the dock fishing. They are both early birds, and usually before 7am they are shuffling off together with coffee and chocolate milk in hand, to catch the small mouth bass that they lost last year!


Water and boating are Jeff's passions. The minute we pull onto Portage Lane I can see him relax. There is just something about this magical place that we love. I am hoping that we will be there again soon. It will be a great place for Jeff to rest and get his strength back again!


There is a chance Jeff will be released this weekend. It all depends how he feels tomorrow after being off of the steroids again. Last time they took him off is when he had one of his worst days. We are all set-up for home health care to help us with the administering of drugs through his "pic" line. I guess I will be trained to help with that... I hope he likes his nurse!!


Greg is back, my sister is back, and Jeff's Mom arrives tomorrow. It will be nice to have extra help with Jeff and the girls!


I will let you know when he is home!


Blessings,

Diana




Thursday, August 2, 2007

So much to be thankful for!






One week ago, I never expected to be creating this week's post from the couch in Jeff's hospital room. Regardless, of my current situation I have so much to be thankful for.

"I have learned the secret of being content in and any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through him who gives me strength." Ph 4:12-13

Today I give thanks for.....

1. Jeff's Internist, Neurologist, Urologist, and Infectious Disease Team

2. The nurses and assistants that have patiently taken care of him and taken an interest in our family.

3. Greg - Jeff's brother who helped me so much by jumping on a plane to just sit with Jeff when I could not be at the hospital with him from Sunday - Wednesday.

4. Greg again - for loving his brother so much, that he is coming back again tomorrow night!

5. For our incredible family group who have supported us thru this trial

6. For my very special girlfriends who have been there to help this week with the girls, meals, laundry, etc. Thank you Liz, Robyn, Sally, Jenny, Jen W. and Kristi!! What a blessing you are to me and my daughters!

7. For my sister Barb who knows exactly what I am going through and has been there for me across the miles.

8. For my Daddy - For his successful cataract surgery that was performed yesterday in TX.

9. For my parents - For wanting to be here to help...

10. For the emails, phone messages, cards, flowers, etc. that have been sent our way this week

11. For Ruby Tuesday - It was such a special day!

12. For Ainsley - For being such a good girl and awesome big sister this week.

13. For the many friends who emailed us to make sure we were not involved in the horrific bridge accident in Minneapolis yesterday.
14. For all of you that have been checking in on Jeff this week!

15. For Jeff - for enduring a brutal week with grace and hope!

"Give thanks in all circumstances..." TH 5:18

Blessings,
Diana


Wednesday, August 1, 2007

Some days are better than others...




First of all, thank you for your sweet messages. What a gift to be lifted up in prayer by all of you. I never knew when we entered into our adoption journey that I would be touched by so many people I may never meet personally. What a priviledge. Thank you!

Secondly, our hearts go out to the familes affected by the bridge accident in Minneapolis. I am a University of Minnesota graduate, and I have traveled along that bridge many times. The hospital that Jeff is at, is only about 10 miles from the accident. When I left tonight the hospital went into code orange status. They were preparing for many victims.

Lastly, I am thankful that Jeff had such a sweet day yesterday with the pearl and the ruby! It made up for the lousy day he had today. We had some setbacks that were just disappointing. The doctors have made the following diagnosis in spite of one test for Lymes that is still pending. Jeff is being treated for "Lymes Disease of the Brain and Spine." As awful as it is, this disease is treatable and we are grateful for that.

These are the times when we depend solely on our faith (and sense of humor) to get us through. Jeff and I have incredible friends that have helped us with the girls. It is getting harder and harder every day for me to hand over Ruby to anyone. She has been doing so well, and I just don't want her to take a step back in her attachment with us. She is incredible! And, Ainsley is being a rock star and helping me by "going with the flow" which is not really Ainsley's style.

I will post again, when we have news of a departure. Until then if you could pray for Jeff. He needs to relax and just be a patient. This disease needs to run its course, and unfortunately that may take a while. Most likely he will be home this weekend now that he has a "Pic" line in for his medication.

Thank you again for your prayers. We will continue to appreciate our good days, and try to patiently wait (sound familiar) for Jeff's health to improve!

Blessings,
Diana




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