Friday, September 14, 2007

"Sleep Glorious Sleep!!"



Her Rubiness has earned the title of Sleeping Beauty for the last two nights. The excitement of walking, fresh air, and 4 shots at the doctor yesterday were the magic potion needed to get a little rest around here! One can only hope we have turned the corner, but I will take two nights of un-interupted sleep when I can get it. Don't get me wrong, I love the Ruby dance, but just not in the middle of the night!

We had a great doctor's appt. yesterday. Dr. Vicki used the adjective, "tremendous" to describe what she is seeing in just 4 short months. Ruby is 21# (she was 16.14 when we came home), and tall!!! 30 1/4" and in the 75% for American babies. I would just love it if she was taller than me someday! Ruby showed off some of her walking abilities, smiled like crazy and even verbalized the word "hi" to a passing doctor. I don't know who was more shocked, the doc or the Mom!! As one would expect, she is not a big fan of needles, but thankfully the nurse was quick and Ruby recovered quickly. She was un-impressed with the stickers presented for a job well done!


We are thrilled with Ruby's progress and so thankful that she is growing, eating, and healthy!

I close with a note on my fun coffee this morning. Ruby and I had coffee with my friend Lee and her Daughter E who came home from China in February. Lee and I met through adoption and we had many coffees during our wait for our two precious daughters. What a treat to have them both holding court in Starbucks! Less than one year ago these girls were a world away. One in an orphange and one in a foster home with no idea how there lives would change overnight. And, never could these two very lucky Mom's know how our hearts would be forever changed.


Happy Friday! Praying for lots of beauty sleep around here!


-Diana
Thursday, September 13, 2007

Thankful Thursday!

Well I am already thankful that it is early and I am up after sleeping from 10:30 - 5:00am!!!! I love being up early before the rest of the house is up. There is nothing like starting my day with two cups of coffee and quiet time! Since my homework this week at BSF is to read the entire book of Matthew I have a lot to do! But, before I dig, in I just want to give thanks today for:

  • That I did not have to do the "Ruby Dance" last night!!!!!! I think lots of fresh air and exhaustion from her first steps wore her out! The dark circle look is not good on me! Thank you for praying for us!
  • That I have the opportunity to work with 5th and 6th grade girls this year at our church on Wednesday nights starting next week. I am really excited about this!
  • For my very special girlfriends (you know who you are) that encourage me daily in my walk. And, for the incredibly thoughtful friends that they are!
  • For the first steps that "Her Rubiness" took yesterday. The look of joy (that was not captured on film) was priceless.
  • For Ainsley's third great week of school. I am so proud of her!
  • That Jeff is back to work, and that he looks healthy!!
  • For Autumn in Minnesota, one of my very favorite times of the year!
  • For hearing the voices of my Monday Night Prayer Group friends again after our summer hiatus!
  • For parents that are 75 and 80 and healthy and that they are able to travel and be here for Grandparents Day with Ainsley in early October!
  • That today is Thankful Thursday and that I have so much to be thankful for!

I hope you have a great day! ~Diana


Wednesday, September 12, 2007

"The Ruby Dance" & First Steps!!!!


Okay, I know it is not Thursday yet, but I need to state that today I am thankful for coffee, cover up, and the fact that big sunglasses are in style again!!!! I have some serious circles under my eyes from doing what we lovingly call "The Ruby dance" for the last three nights. I can set my clock by Ruby at night lately. At 11:30 her alarm goes off and she is in-consolable. I am not sure if it is night terrors because I don't know anything about them. At 2:08 last night she finally gave into going back to sleep. I know I am not the only adoptive or bio Mom experiencing this right now. I am open for suggestions. Ruby was doing absolutely great until Jeff got sick. In the last two weeks she has slept through the night two times, but most nights I am up doing the "Ruby dance." Unfortunately, I can not leave her to cry it out, because when it escalates to a certain level she gets sick. We have been to the dry cleaners three times in the last month. Poor baby. It just breaks my heart when she is so upset. During the day she is happy, easy, content. She naps like a dream baby too. She goes to bed pretty easily at 8:00 until the "dance" begins at 11:30. Thankfully, the big sister sleeps through it all. In fact, since we came home from China, Ainsley has not woken up once. Oh, to be 6 again. Poor Jeff, he is so exhausted! I was handling my lack of sleep pretty well until last night. Last night I was praying so hard that she would just run out of gas. Any suggestions? We see her doctor tomorrow, so I am anxious to talk to her about it.

On a different note, Her Rubiness took 9 steps today!!!! I don't know who was more excited, Ruby, Mom, or the Kindermusik teacher where this all took place! I have a feeling I am just days away from having a true toddler!!! She is now napping after all of the excitement this morning!

I hope those of you reading this are getting your beauty rest. I am off to research night terrors!

Blessings, Diana

FYI: That gorgeous sweater on Ruby was handmade by my old college roommate, Maureen! And, those cute loafers are made by Trumpet who also makes the adorable socks Ruby wore in China... Those sassy patent leather shoes are her first gift from her "fancy" Aunt Lisa!
Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Remembering 9/11/01



Today I was going to start my Ruby Tuesday updates for the sole purpose of tracking her milestones as a journal for Ruby as well as her Grandparents that are all long distance. But, since it is the sixth anniversary of 9/11 it just didn't seem appropriate to kick it off today.

This day will always be a sobering reminder to me of being a new Mom with a three month old. September 11th, 2001 was to be my first day back to work after twelve weeks of maternity leave. In fact Ainsley and I had plane tickets to travel to Minneapolis for the week so I could work at our home office. My Mom was scheduled to fly in from Texas to meet me, and take care of Ainsley for the week. My highschool friends had a baby shower planned for us during that trip too.

Instead, I sat with the rest of the world holding my newborn and watching the second tower fall in horror. The reality of the tragedy was devastating. I remember questioning how could I bring a baby into this world of hatred and unrest.

We didn't travel that day, but we did head to MSP that following Saturday. I remember Jeff as a new father, and protective husband, watching us walk through security at the Nashville airport while armed gaurds stood by. Since we had to be two hours early and the airport was empty we went to an airport restaurant to wait for our plane. This is where I met two wonderful men who were sitting together at a table with their bibles open. They must have seen in my eyes the fear of flying with a newborn after such a tragedy. They approached me to ask what I was doing, and where I was going with my new baby. I remember telling them how terrible I felt that I was flying to MSP for a baby shower when so many people were suffering because of the loss of loved ones. These two special people told me in times of tragedy, it is a blessing for others to celebrate life too! Then they asked of they could pray for us. I had never had anyone ask me this. They prayed for our safety that day. I will always be grateful to those two men for the comfort they gave to this perfect stranger that day.
Today I will send that newborn off to first grade, and I will be starting my third year of BSF where we are studying the book of Matthew this year. And, I will pause to pray for those who are grieving for loved ones lost on that horrific day. I will pray for protection for my kids and Jeff, and hopefully I will pause to pray for a stranger who just looks like they need a friend today.

Blessings to you and your loved ones!
Diana
Saturday, September 8, 2007

4 Months ago today Yue Meng Ru became ours forever!!!!!

What a blessing this little girl has been to our family. Just four short months ago, we held our second precious daughter for the first time in the Jiangxi Province of China! God taught us a lot of invaluable lessons while we waited for Ruby Mei. Most of all He taught us about faith and unconditional love. We are beyond grateful that we were called to the journey of international adoption.

Enjoy!

(Music: "A Beautiful Sound" album, by Geoff Moore, Song "Swept Away")

Friday, September 7, 2007

Blog Facelift.... DONE!


I just want to send a thank you to Danielle for updating the look of this blog. Now, if this user can learn a few tricks of the trade we will be good to go! Sorry I missed thankful Thursday. What I would say is I am thankful for the talents that God gives to others that they so willingly share! Thanks again Kim & Danielle!
My next goal is Ruby Tuesday entries! Until then, I hope you have a great weekend!
Happy Friday!
-Diana


Monday, September 3, 2007

"Mia's Strawberry Patch"

During my wait, I had the blessing of falling upon one of my very favorite adoption journies,
http://myadoptionwebsite.com/MiaMeiLi/index.html. Jenny Hampton and her husband are Americans living in Italy with their three precious daughters. Jenny inspired me for many of the pictures I took of Ruby while in China, and for Ruby's adoption video that plays in my head, that I have yet to create.

Jenny along with the help of her older daughters Hanna and Maggie, have written, illustrated and now had published, "Mia's Strawberry Patch!" "This book celebrates difference while portraying a tender message of acceptance, self-esteem and love." Jenny is donating 100% of the proceeds from this project to "Half the Sky!" You can read more about Jenny's project at her blog Hamptons Abroad, http://www.hamptonsabroad.com/miasstrawberrypatch.html

"Mia's Strawberry Patch" is available at amazon.com. I hope you will order a copy for your collection, and for Christmas or adoption gifts for everyone you know!

Thanks Jenny for making this project come to life! I am so excited for you!

Blessings,
Diana
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