Thursday, April 26, 2007

A special 43rd Red Thread!!


Two years ago I told the infertility clinic IF I got my period by 4-24-05 , my 41st birthday, my ovaries were going into retirement! Well the joke was on me when I got my period that very day! Whoever does not believe that God has a sense of humor does not know God! I remember feeling almost relieved so I could wholeheartedly pursue my hearts desire, adoption from China!

I guess I knew from the day God called Jeff to China, that the story would end this way for our family anyway. Not sure why we bothered with the shots, the drama, etc.... Really, it was the best birthday present ever!!


Fast forward two years, to this past Tuesday, 4-24-07... The day started out perfectly. At 5:30am precious Ainsley woke me up, whispering "Happy Birthday Mama.. I love you!" Then 4 hours later my wonderful BSF group gave me a surprise shower, and birthday cake.. And, less than 8 hours later I am sitting in Jeff's office on a 2 hour conference call with America World's Travel Group #124, getting de-briefed on what we need to know before we arrive in China! Red thread? I would say so! So, to stay with the red theme, my lovely family presented me with my very own (or should I say Ruby's very own) "Ruby Red Bumble Ride Stroller" for my birthday present! Love it!!!!


I got to close my perfect birthday day with dinner with the entire Edwards Family, Jeff & Ainsley. My favorite memory besides the "Ruby Red Bumbleride" will be my precious tenors (Dad and Mark) serenading me with their beautiful Happy Birthday song! A priceless gift!

And the photo attached here, was taken by our budding photographer, Ainsley Kathryn!


So, Chapter 43, is really another beginning for me. A beautiful baby girl is waiting for her Mama

to bring her home! I may look 50 shortly, but for now I feel like I am 23! I am so excited to be a Mama again! Five more full days to pull it all together! Can't wait!
Friday, April 20, 2007

Itinerary!!!!




We are leaving on a jet plane in 12 days!!!! Monday, April 9th we received our Consulate Appointment confirmation which led to the finalization of plane tickets for a party of three leaving China together on May 17th! Here is what our trip looks like:

May 2nd - Di & Jeff leave MSP bound for Beijing
May 3rd - Arrive Beijing
May 4th - No schedule, on our own!!!
May 5th - Beijing Sight Seeing: Tiananmen Square, Forbidden City, Summ Palace
May 6th - Church Service & Great Wall
May 7th - Travel to Nanchang!!!!!
May 8th - Meet Ruby Mei Rouse (Time TBD)
May 9th - Paperwork, Sight-seeing, Shop!!
May 10th - Ditto
May 11th - Ditto
May 12th - Fly to Guangzhou
May 13th/14th - Fill out Consulate Forms & Ruby's Medical Exam
May 15th - Consulate Appointment @ 9:30
May 16th - Pick up Ruby's Visa
May 17th - Travel home from GZ via Narita and SFO
Land in MSP at 4:15pm!!!!
Ruby Mei meets her precious big sister for the first time!


We have had a lot going on in our lives over the past two weeks. Sunday, April 15th our BIL, Jack lost his battle to Parkinson's. We are so grateful that we were in town to be here for Barb. God has shown us that His timing is perfect ALWAYS!!!! Ruby Mei will be such a source of joy for her Aunt Bop!!!! Thanks to all of you who have supported us again through this time in our lives. With family and friends here to celebrate Jack's life, the days are quickly flying by as we prepare to leave for China! We are so excited for May 2nd to be finally heading to Ruby land!
We hope you will follow our journey at www.myadoptionwebsite.com/diandjeff for daily ramblings about our adventures in China! And, of course for photos of our precious girl!

Blessings from a very happy Mama!
Sunday, April 8, 2007

Are we 30 days away from Ruby Mei?


Happy Easter!
Tomorrow we hope to have word that we will finally be holding Ruby Mei on May 8th! We have reason to believe that our Consulate Appointment arrived on Friday when AWAA's offices were closed.
On faith that it will happen we booked plane tickets that have us arriving in Beijing on May 3rd and departing Guongzhou on May 17th. We should be able to finalize all of the travel details tomorrow!
Hopefully our next post will have us in official countdown to China mode!!!
Blessings to you and your families on this very special day!
-Diana, Jeff & Ainsley
Thursday, April 5, 2007

A distraction named "Lucy"




Some people read parenting books while they wait, some read about attachment & bonding, and some read about what their child should be doing at 8 months... Well, at the moment we are doing none of the above. We are reading "Dachshunds for Dummies!" Yes, Lucy is our distraction while we wait for our CA!
Lucy is actually a gift for my mother-in-law Arlene. So pre-surprise I was doing the "mommy" thing... Let's just say that "Gotcha Lucy" was not pretty. But, now four days later she is doing great!!! I am grateful for how quickly this puppy has helped the week fly by. And, I am thankful for the lessons she has taught me about patience, love, and being the parent to a baby again!!!
Happy Easter Arlene, I hope you have a life time of precious memories with adorable Lucy!!
On an adoption note, we got our TA on Monday, April 2nd. And, we hope to be booking plane tickets that have us leaving for China on May 3rd. If this all comes together (please God!) we will have our Ruby Mei on May 8th just in time for Mother's Day!!!! We are so excited.
On a final note, my RQ friend Kim received her precious Kate Emerson last night. Congratulations Swales family!!!!
Hugs,
Diana
Friday, March 23, 2007

The Nursery and the Big Sister Rooms!





































If you are wondering why I have named this blog 1Diamond, 1 Ruby, and 1 Pearl it is because those precious gems represent the females in our family! I, the Mom, have the diamond as my birthstone!! Ainsley, being a June girl has the pearl, and as you know our sweet little Ruby Mei, has the Ruby!! Won't that be a gorgeous piece of jewerlry for this Mom someday!!! Fortunately, for me, their Daddy has great taste!!!

Many of you have asked me to share nursery photos. I included a few along with two pictures from her big sister's room!
We are still waiting for the artwork that will go over Ruby's crib! Thanks to my lovely friend Shauna, we are using her great idea of displaying the Chinese characters for "Faith, Hope & Love" over her crib. Our long time family friend Molly is doing this for us with the help of her Japanese Father-in-law who is a Japanese chaligrapher! We can't wait to see their finished product!!

We sure hope Ruby loves her room!!! We have had so much fun getting it ready for her homecoming! We can't wait to rock her in her comfy chair, and to see her in her cozy crib!

Let's Celebrate!!!
















For over two years our amazing family group had travled along side us on our adoption journey to Ruby Mei. They were with us in the very beginning when we decided to go forward with the China program. They faithfully prayed for the daughter that God had picked for our family! They gracefully checked in with us monthly to see how things were moving along. They were there to celebrate the highs and the lows along the waiting trail! After our immediate family, they were the first people we wanted to call when we knew our long wait was over! They celebrated like loving Aunts & Uncles do when a new child is born!

So, last Saturday night, we decided we wanted to celebrate Ruby's "delivery" and thank these 10 incredible friends personally for their faithfulness and support. We did it Chinese style, and it was a very special evening! We are forever grateful for the difference these couples have made in our lives! We can't wait to see them all at the airport when we come home! No journey like this should ever be taken alone!

She has a name!!!


March 13th was our two year anniversary of being called to this awesome adoption journey!
It was also the day that we hoped to finalize our new daughter's name.

Some families easily name their adopted and biological children before delivery, or in this case before referral. We did this with our precious Ainsley Kathryn. When I was five months pregnant we fell in love with what would be her name. However, this time around after spreadsheets of names, we decided to wait until we knew who she was. We had hoped her Chinese name would inspire her American name. Well, that is exactly what happened.
On referral day, we found out her name was Yue Meng Ru. Immediately I fell in love with her middle name Ru! In fact we are guessing that she is called Ru or Meng Ru, or Ru Ru today.
During our wait, I had followed families with daughters nick named Lu Lu, Chu Chu, Li Li, etc.. I loved how cute they all were! So, God gives us Ru! and I am overjoyed and then obsessed with incorporating Ru somehow. A good friend of mine reminds me that Ruby is the birthstone for July. That was all it took for me, and I was in love with the name Ruby. Next while Jeff was out of town, I started looking at middle names to go with Ruby. I came upon Mei which means "Beautiful" in Chinese! It seemed so simple to me, she had to be Ruby Mei! Well, since I was one of three votes in our family, I had to get the rest of the crew on board. Ru's Daddy needed more to go on. He wanted to see Ru's translated biography before we made any decisions.
So, on Tuesday, March 13th we recieved Ru's bio. And there it was in black and white!! Someone very important in Ru's life had the name of Mei! God had answered our prayers again and He gave us her name!!!! What else could it be but....


RUBY MEI

Ruby = Precious Stone or Gem

Mei = Beautiful



We can't wait to bring our beautiful precious gem home!!!!


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