Showing posts with label Ruby Tuesday Anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ruby Tuesday Anniversary. Show all posts
Sunday, May 8, 2011

4 Incredible Years With Her Rubiness!

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Four years ago, I started my Mother's Day in Guangzhou, China very early in the morning. It was the start of my sixth day with Ruby Mei, and I was already madly in love with her. She was slowly revealing the amazing child she would prove to be. I could have never imagined that God was laying the foundation to call us back to China two more times. Ruby Mei has shown us in so many ways the joy that comes with following God's plan for our lives. I will never forget this very special Mother's Day! A powerful post was written by Jeff about his visit to Ruby's finding place on Mother's Day, May 13, 2007.

You can read it here.

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Yesterday I had the opportunity to spend the afternoon with Her Rubiness. What a blessing it was for me to be with her. Our first stop was to see Brie, so Ruby could get her hair cut. Always a highlight for my girls!! The next stop, the Arboretum for our annual dandelion pick! Even though the dandelions were not as plentiful as previous years, she had fun running around. And, she did manage to find a bouquet to share!! We enjoyed a beautiful lunch at the Arb, and a great walk around the blooming tulips and daffodils. It was a perfect way to spend our afternoon!

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Ruby is very excited for her "anniversary!" She will tell anyone that will listen about it! We are celebrating Ruby Tuesday and Mother's Day at one of our favorite restaurants.

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During our lunch yesterday, I was telling Ruby about what a blessing she has been in my life. She asked me to share her special story with her.. She loves to hear about the day we met. She laughs when I tell her that she gave us a taste of just how loud she would prove to be on that first day.. She also laughs when she hears she was dressed in a sweatshirt and sweatpants when it was 90+ degrees out.. And, she smiles when I tell her she was the only baby in the room that had barrettes in her hair, and that they said "Love Love!" She soaks in every detail of that day.

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Yesterday I shared with Ruby that God has used her in a very special way already in her young life. I explained that many people followed her journey. I told her I have received several emails from Mom's who were encouraged to endure their waits because of Ruby Mei. She loved knowing that she has perhaps helped some other little girls from China come home to their forever families. I can think of one that calls her sister and one that will soon! When we got home she immediately shared how God has used her with Sienna!! :)

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There is something very special about this little girl. She has a joy about her that is contagious. As I have said her highs are high, and her low's are loud!! Most likely you will have a smile on your face after an encounter with Her Rubiness!

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In late August or early September Ruby will become a big sister for the first time. I honestly can't wait for this. As much as I was concerned about Ruby losing her "baby in the family" status those fears are gone. She is going to have so much fun helping with Emme Jade! She has big plans for her little sister! She prays for her every night! We held hands yesterday and threw pennies in the fountain. Her wish was for our LOA so Emme could come home!

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This fall, Ruby will also enter Kindergarten with her sister Sienna. According to her teachers, she is more than ready for this. We are excited to see her thrive. Miss Franz has no idea what she is in for!!! My guess is, Her Rubiness will steal a few hearts at Chapel Hill!

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I think it's fitting that Ruby's anniversary lands on Mother's Day this year. She has taught me amazing life lessons since Ruby Tuesday, 2007. She has taught me that there truly are no boundaries when it comes to loving a child. She has taught me that some days motherhood is just about sitting back, and finding the beauty in a field of dandelions.. My prayer for Ruby is that she will always find the beauty in the world around her. And, that God will use her to do mighty things! Happy Ruby Tuesday precious Ruby Mei! What a gift you are!

Lastly, Happy Mother's Day to my Mom and to all the amazing Mom's I know and love!


Ruby's fun outfit is from Bridget & Company on Etsy!
My shopping consultant, Jennifer, sent me to this wonderful boutique!


Saturday, May 8, 2010

Celebrating The Gift of Her Rubiness!





There has been a great deal of conversation lately amongst the adoption community about celebrating what some refer to as "Gotcha Day." It is true, not all of these much anticipated days are happy. Those of you who followed our journey to Sienna know they can be a mix of joy and heartbreak. So, as we were looking at this day, the third anniversary of Ruby Tuesday I decided to ask Ruby if she would like to celebrate... Her response was "yes!" Can I have a balloon and a special dessert?

So today we will celebrate our special little girl with balloons and strawberry shortcake! We will celebrate the plan that God had for Ruby Mei. And, we will continue to pray that one day she will understand why this is her story... Her Rubiness has brought more joy and energy to one house than you could ever dream of. She is smart, funny, dramatic, passionate, competitive, happy and deeply loved. To me there is no difference in the way she came into my arms. She has made me love deeper, and she has taught me definitely more than I will ever teach her.

But, perhaps one of the greatest gifts we have been blessed to give Ruby this year is the gift of a sister who shares a piece of her story.. And, God blessed me with this last night as I was tucking Sienna in... Sienna crawled across her bed to Ruby.. She gently kissed her on the cheek while Ruby was sleeping and softly told her, "I love you Mei Mei..." As I choked back the tears of this precious moment, it came to me that these girls were born to be sisters. You see, Ruby may have more questions than I can answer one day. But, without a doubt I do believe that her destiny was to be in our family. This was not a random match. God new from the beginning, that Yue Meng Ru was going to be Ruby Mei R. and that she would change our hearts forever! So, that is what I choose to celebrate today! It will always be one of the most special days of my life. And, if one day Ruby does not want to celebrate this anniversary, we will respect that. But, I will always quietly give thanks for one of the most God ordained moments Jeff and I have ever shared.

"For I know the plans I have for you declares
the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a future."
~Jeremiah 29:11

Blessings,

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Then & Now! - Day 2 with Her Rubiness!

Yesterday we decided to celebrate Ruby Tuesday by pulling The Pearl out of school for a family day.  We drove up to the cabin for the weekend.  This photo is of the girls playing with Ruby's new water table.  Her Ruby Tuesday gift!  We ended the day with a fun celebration cake.  When we would ask her, "What is today Ruby?"  She would say, "My special day!"  
It was a great day!

This photo is from our first day in Nanchang with Ruby after Ruby Tuesday.  As you can see she had just been crying....  We cheered her up by showing her how darn cute she was in the mirror!!!  It was our big adventure to the crazy Wal*Mart in Nanchang.  A true experience.

We journaled about the day after Ruby Tuesday here!

Blessings,
Thursday, May 7, 2009

Now & Then - One day away from Ruby Tuesday!

Our amazing Jiangxi Jewel Now...

Well the time we had waited almost two years for was finally upon us.  We were one day away from meeting Yue Meng Ru!  We flew into Nanchang on Monday morning where we were greeted by the famous and very special Mary, our guide.  Mary would become not only our labor and delivery nurse, but our dear friend.  To this day we keep in touch with her, and she has been an amazing blessing to our family.  This was the woman that handed me our daughter.  I will never forget her!


We journaled about the day before Ruby Tuesday here...
Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Now & Then - Day 3 in China


Yesterday when I picked up Ruby from her BSF (Bible Study Fellowship) 2 year old class, she came running to greet me with the Mother's Day card she had made for me...  She wrapped her arms around me with a big smile and said, "I Wuv You, and I Missed You Mama..."!  With tears in my eyes I held that precious girl so tight...  I will cherish my first handmade Mother's Day card from Ruby Mei and that moment in time forever!  

Looking back two years we still had not met the tiny girl that would change our lives forever.
We were attending an incredible Christian Worship Service, shopping for Jade, and climbing the Great Wall.  We were only two days away from Ruby Tuesday now...


We journaled about our adventures on May 6th here.

Thanks for re-living our trip with us...  Jeff and I were just saying we are so thankful we documented it then.  We would never remember it all...  Thanks Joe & Jen!

Blessings,
Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Now & Then - Day 2 in China

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Jeff and I had arrived in China one day before the rest of our travel group.  So that day in The Hutong was a bonus!!  May 5th was the official beginning of our AWAA touring.  They did a fabulous job moving us from place to place.  We had so much fun as a couple enjoying China!  It was a very special time for us.  While it was difficult to leave Ainsley back home, we knew it was the best decision for our family.  She was loved and happy, and we were thrilled to be alone as a couple exploring a foreign land.  It truly was an adventure while we waited a few more days for Ruby Tuesday!  We posted about this fun day here!


Monday, May 4, 2009

Now & Then.... Day 1 in China!

Our Jiangxi Girl now!!!!

But, two years ago on this day we were....


Rested and happy to finally be in Ruby's birth country!  We set off with a few families from AWAA for a tour of the Hutong in Beijing by Rickshaw!  I think it was one of those, "I can't believe we are in China" kind of days!!!!  As you can see, May was a beautiful time to be in Beijing!  We were now 4 days away from meeting Her Rubiness!  We journaled about that day here!
Saturday, May 2, 2009

Two Years Ago Today.....


I was doing the last minute things you do before you leave for CHINA for two weeks to pick up your daughter!!!!!  It was an exciting time, and it truly is hard to believe it was 24 months ago!  I think I will post my favorite pics from that special time over the next two weeks.

Ruby fell asleep in her crib while I was into my second round of, "I Love You Like Crazy Cakes" last night.  It is the first time I have ever read it to her....  As I stared at her beautiful, peaceful face, I couldn't help but get choked up.  She has come so far in two years.  I believe that most of her grieving is behind her now.  She looks so peaceful when she sleeps most nights.  She has taught me so much more than I have taught her.  Some days it is overwhelming when I truly pause to think about how blessed I am to be her Mom.  I read this quote on Mandi's blog today and it speaks volumes about how I feel, and why I am so grateful that Jeff and I were called to China to love Yue Meng Ru forever...

""God does not call the equipped, He equips those that answer the call."
~Mother Teresa

Ruby Mei, "I love you like Crazy Cakes."

~Mommy
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